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There is never enough

 
There is never enough
 
 As we sit in meditation we begin to see all the stories the mind conjures up to distract usfrom being present with life as it is.
 
The ego mind hatesbeing with life as it is, because the egoisthe resistance to how life is in this present moment. If there is no struggle then this allows us to see the ego for what it is - a belief in a separate self that seems to exist somewhere inside the body and needs to keep churning out stories about how life should be, used to be and could be.

Thought for the day - Radio Leicester

Thought for the day
There is lot of talk nowadays about happiness – the government has its happiness index and even film stars such as Goldie Hawn are encouraging us to think in terms of happiness and mindfulness.

It seems to me that for many of us life has become a problem rather than a joy. The media often focus on what is wrong in the world and it’s so very easy to get caught up thinking about our problems. We appear to be a culture that is problem oriented.

But are some of our problems really problems.

Does mindfulness meditation help us feel better?

I am asked many questions about mindfulness on the courses I run, but all who ask are really asking the same question, perhaps in different ways - will meditation help me feel better? We all, no matter who it is want to feel good. My response to that question is - it's up to you. What I mean is that we need to know what it is that makes us feel good. If we think that feeling good means never being sad and afraid then no it won't help us feel good. If our attitude is to keep anything uncomfortable out of awareness then again mindfulness will not help us feel better.

Mindfulness - living from a place deeper than thoughts.

A few weeks ago I had a bout of flu and of course the sore throat that seems to accompany it. My chest felt like there was a wet blanket laid on my lungs - it was all quite uncomfortable. I woke up this particular morning did the bathroom bit and went as usual to my meditation Kuti and noticed my mind making excuses not to reach it. "take the dog for a walk," "have a cup of tea first," and of course the obligatory "you should reply to that email before they change their mind.

Economic crisis?

This is a copy of my latest  Thought for the dayon Radio Leicester
Whenever I turn on the news or read a newspaper I am reminded again and again of the current financial crisis facing us all.
But is it just a financial crisis? Everything has a cause, so what is the cause of this so called economic crisis? I wonder if we would be nearer the truth if we called it anemotional crisis.
It seems that for most of us our emotions in the form of desires are out of control.
We seem to be endlessly wanting - wanting more money - wanting latest designer clothes - wanting the latest gadgets - wanting more power - even wanting to be special.

Thoughts as Scaffolding

THOUGHTS AS SCAFFOLDING: When I was living in the retreat centre in North Wales there was a large house about a mile away which had scaffolding holding up its "west wing" as it was leaning badly. The scaffolding as I remember had been there for many years and had done its job of holding it altogether. Recently in meditation the image of that building and scaffolding popped into my mind and I knew instantly the meaning of this. 

Thoughts are like scaffolding, they hold things together.

Radio Leicester

Dear all, the demand for what I am doing has been increasing over recent months, particularly I think since the launch of the book.  I have been interviewed on Radio Leicester about Buddhism, silence and happiness recently as well as doing somethoughts for the day.

I have also been teaching mindfulness meditation in schools. In Huntingdon I have been working with teachers and have been approached about doing some work at Regents College in Leicester.

I have a six week Buddhism course starting in January and a mindfulness and compassion  meditation course starting next month too.

Space is full of happiness

EMPTY SPACE IS FULL OF HAPPINESS. If we ever think of space at all we tend to dismiss it as irrelevant - we are more interested in the objects in space. However, without space these objects would not exist. When I say objects I am talking about everything. Space contains, the Sun, Earth and cars. It contains the internet, cheese sandwiches and love. It also contains ideas, wind, war, peace and your own body.  Now space doesn't object to any of these events not even to war and hatred, it just allows them to come and to go.

Mindfulness - opening the other door

Imagine there is a room with two doors. One door is always open the other is normally closed. Imagine also there is a line of people at the open door entering into the room. The people here never stop entering and as you can see at some point it starts to get over crowded. At some point it gets very claustrophobic and sooner or later even the walls come under strain. I wonder what happens next in your scenario? 

As you may have guessed the room represents ourselves. The open door represents life and life never stops happening that is why the people never cease entering the room.

We don't get happiness

Meditation is finding out who we are, not about floating of into some imaginary pink cloud. 

As we bring awareness to our lives we notice that this sense of self which is always needing something is actually a mental construct that exists only in our heads. It is the belief in this self that makes us feel separate from life and so we endeavour desperately to find meaning in it as compensation.  

Whilst we are trying to find meaning to our life, we miss life. We turn from the wonder of life in all its glory to worrying about it because it's not going as we expect it to from the viewpoint of our own personal fears and desires. We try desperately to get life to give us meaning and happiness, when actually our life must be be an expression of meaning, and an expression of our happiness.